I remember reading a review and synopsis of this book in a newspaper and knowing immediately that I wanted to read it. Elizabeth is Missing is told from the perspective of 82 year old Maud who has dementia or Alzheimer’s (neither are explicitly stated in the book though). Maud is certain that her friend Elizabeth is missing, but no one will take her claims seriously. She is regularly taken back to the past in her memory, recalling the time when she was a young girl and her older sister Sukey went missing. Everyone seems to have forgotten about this seventy year old mystery – except Maud.
While it was the aspect of dementia which initially drew me to the book, before reading I was a little concerned that this topic would be purely used as a plot device or a tool to retain the mystery of the two disappearances. But, in some ways, dementia and the theme of memory are the most important aspects of the book, with the disappearances feeling almost secondary. I feel that Elizabeth is Missing gives an honest, truthful, and respectful portrayal of dementia. It feels very real – as if Healey has had personal experience or done a lot of research – and she skilfully simulates Maud’s experience for the reader, whilst staying respectful to Maud and others who suffer from this cruel disease. Maud’s perspective can be disorientating and confusing; we feel her anger and despair when she struggles to remember something. Elsewhere, there are beautiful phrases which perfectly capture the feeling of Maud being unable to express herself or remember something and articulate it before it’s gone. While I loved these descriptions, the more I think about it, the more I wonder about their place in the book – there’s a discord between what Maud is doing (struggling to articulate) and what she is saying in the novel (a beautiful, articulate description of being unable to say what she means). Nevertheless, I enjoyed these descriptions – Healey is clearly a skilled writer.
At times, I did feel as if dementia was used to the writer’s advantage. For example, Maud has been told something, and so the reader isn’t given that piece of information. On the one hand this feels truthful – the book is written from Maud’s perspective so if she doesn’t know something, neither do we – but on the other hand, it does slightly feel as if the dementia has been used as a means to hide the truth from the reader until the last possible moment.
In terms of the theme of memory, when reading Elizabeth is Missing I was, at times, reminded of The Night Guest by Fiona McFarlane which also explores memory or dementia (interestingly, it isn’t actually stated in this novel either). In The Night Guest Ruth’s memory loss is introduced gradually, so the reader begins to doubt what they believed at first which can leave you unsettled. In Elizabeth is Missing Maud’s memory loss is apparent from the outset and we see it deteriorating throughout. Because of this, we can sadly doubt Maud from the beginning which adds an interesting element to the novel as we’re not sure what to believe.
The two disappearances give the book its plot, and the parallel stories – Maud in the present believing her friend Elizabeth is missing, and Maud as a young girl when her sister disappeared – work well together. As I said earlier I did feel as if these mysteries were secondary in the book and, while they certainly kept my interest and I wanted to know how events unfolded, it was the theme of memory which most interested me.
The ending is a satisfying one, if a little convenient, but overall Elizabeth is Missing is a sad, touching, and insightful story. The subject of dementia made it difficult for me to read at times, yet it was so compelling that I had to read on. It’s an accomplished and well-crafted debut novel and I’m looking forward to reading what Healey writes next.
Have you read Elizabeth is Missing? What did you think?
32 thoughts on “Review: Elizabeth is Missing – Emma Healey”
I have read Elizabeth Is Missing but it is a book I have been interesting in reading, avoiding reviews to an extent as it’s one of those books I don’t want to be ruined by spoilers etc – of course I couldn’t pass up reading your review though! Thorough without giving away too much detail, heightening my curiosity, I hope I’m able to get round to reading this one soon. Thanks for sharing, Gemma!
Thank you Jade 🙂 I hope you get round to reading the book soon, I’d really recommend it!
Loved this book – one of my top debut novels of the year 🙂
Glad you enjoyed the book! It’s such an accomplished debut.
I keep seeing reviews of this, it sounds great.
I’d recommend reading it 🙂
I’ve recently read the book and thought it was good. Every time I felt like the memory loss was on the verge of becoming “old,” there was an interesting twist to make it seem authentic. I enjoyed reading it.
I agree – the book could have been very repetitive but Healey managed to keep it fresh and compelling throughout.
Having read and enjoyed both The Night Guest and Elizabeth is Missing I’d plump for the first as the best although both are both very accomplished first novels.
They are both very accomplished, although if I had to choose I’d probably say I preferred The Night Guest too 🙂
I enjoyed Elizabeth is Missing, and I went along to see Emma Healey speak about the book around the time of its launch. It’s interesting to read your thoughts on the book’s portrayal of dementia, as Healey’s grandmother has dementia, and she used some of her grandmother’s experiences to inform the book. I haven’t read The Night Guest, but it sounds interesting!
I didn’t know that, but it makes sense – the subject of dementia is handled so well and it feels very real. I’d highly recommend The Night Guest – I thought it was a very assured debut and the writing is wonderful.
This sounds fascinating, and it looks from your review as though the author handled the sensitive topic well. I shall have to get a copy, I think!
I’d love to know what you think of it if you get a chance to read it 🙂
I’m thinking of how large my TBR is at the moment to stop myself buying a copy, but I’m sure I’ll probably cave soon!
This looks really good and sounds very original! Thanks for the review!
It’s interesting that from the first moment I read about this book I knew that I didn’t want to read it. Perhaps I am too close to having had to deal with my mother’s vascular dementia to want to revisit the subject.
I can understand that; my own personal experience did make the book difficult to read at times. I think Healey does deal with the subject very respectfully and sensitively, so I would recommend the book if you do ever feel ready to read it.
I’m like Alex – I keep seeing positive reviews of this book, but just don’t want to read it, because I know it’ll trigger the emotions I felt when my mother started on the road to dementia. But the book has had so much praise that I’ll certainly be looking out for the author’s next one.
I can understand that. I’ll certainly be keeping an eye out for what Healey writes next too, she’s clearly a very skilled writer!
Everyone I trust has loved this book. However, a family story is keeping me away from the book for the same reason you were drawn to it: dementia. But the same happens with cancer and I’m very lucky to say no one close to me has died from it. So, maybe it’s ill bodies what’s upsetting me.
Also, like you mention, I’m afraid it’ll be used simply as a tool: as a writer, you don’t have to hide the clues, because your main character cannot remember them to begin with. However, Kate Atkinson introduced a character with dementia on one of the Jackson Brodie books – I can’t remember which for the life of me, but I’d say #1 – and she did an amazing job. Just in case you’re interested 🙂
My own personal experiences meant that I found the book difficult to read at times, so I can completely understand why you wouldn’t want to read the book.
That’s interesting, thanks for letting me know 🙂
Oh wow. Sorry to hear that. You were brave to pick it up and give it a fair review x
Got it yesterday and I’m really enjoying it! So glad I saw your post!
That’s great! And thank you for letting me know – it’s lovely to hear you decided to get the book, I hope you continue to enjoy it! Please let me know what you think when you finish 🙂
I am getting ready to blog about it as a preview. Do you mind if I mention your blog and insert a link?
Of course, that’s fine 🙂
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I read and loved this book!
Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for reading and commenting 🙂